Huge 5 Year Lie..what a bomb?

I would stay with her and make it work. You two seem to have so much history together and I would not throw that away because she made a huge mistake. Do not let her dumbness choose the fate of your relationship. Let your love for her and you history choose the fate. I'm a hopeless romantic and I would love to see yal work through it and overcome this obstacle God has thrown at you. God can not give you more than you can handle. So you can handle and get past this :-) If you havent guessed ..it's me. I love you and I would rather die than have you feel anymore pain. I'm so ashamed and discussed. Please dont give up hope.